Sorting game

La bise or a handshake? Sort French greeting situations

Kiss on the cheek, handshake or just bonjour? Sort twelve situations the way most French people would, then learn the unwritten rules of la bise.

In short

In France, la bise (cheek kisses) is for friends, family and often friends of friends; a handshake (une poignée de main) is for professional and first formal meetings; a simple bonjour is enough with shop staff. Between two men, the bise is common in the family and among close friends, especially in the south.

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Two people exchanging a handshake at a first professional meeting.
A first professional meeting often begins with une poignée de main. Illustration: Atelier

How would you greet them?

Tap a word, then the box it belongs in.

What are the rules of la bise in France?

How many kisses?
RegionUsual number
Paris and most of France2
Montpellier, parts of the south3
parts of the west (Nantes area)4 (less common now)
Brittany (Finistère)1

Start with the right cheek (your head goes to your left), and let the cheeks touch lightly: the kiss is a sound, not a kiss on the skin. If you're unsure, follow the other person's lead. Since 2020 many people offer a wave or an elbow instead, and saying on ne se fait pas la bise ? is perfectly polite.

Question 1No account needed
A first meeting with a business partner:

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

a handshake. Professional first meetings: une poignée de main.

Question 2No account needed
Entering a small shop, you say…

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

Bonjour !. Bonjour is expected; silence is considered rude.