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Merci quand même: how to say “thanks anyway” in French

Thank someone even when they cannot help: merci quand même. Practise four short exchanges, add a reason for your thanks and choose a natural reply.

In short

Merci quand même means “thanks anyway” or “thank you all the same”. Use it when the person’s help or offer is appreciated even though things have not worked out. Merci quand même d’avoir cherché makes the appreciated effort clear: “Thanks anyway for looking.”

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Four everyday situations

1

The book is unavailable

The bookseller has checked.

Other personJ’ai vérifié, mais nous n’avons plus ce livre.I’ve checked, but we no longer have this book.
YouD’accord. Merci quand même d’avoir cherché.All right. Thanks anyway for looking.
Other personJe vous en prie.You’re welcome.
2

Your friend cannot lend something

YouTu peux me prêter ton parapluie ?Can you lend me your umbrella?
Other personDésolé, j’en ai besoin pour rentrer.Sorry, I need it to get home.
YouCe n’est pas grave. Merci quand même.That’s all right. Thanks anyway.
3

A search has not worked

Other personJ’ai cherché tes clés dans mon sac, mais je ne les ai pas trouvées.I looked for your keys in my bag, but I didn’t find them.
YouMerci quand même. C’est gentil d’avoir essayé.Thanks anyway. It was kind of you to try.
Other personTu veux que je regarde dans la voiture ?Would you like me to look in the car?
4

You cannot accept an invitation

Other personJ’ai un billet en trop pour le concert. Tu veux venir ?I have a spare ticket for the concert. Would you like to come?
YouJ’aimerais bien, mais je travaille ce soir. Merci quand même pour l’invitation.I’d love to, but I’m working tonight. Thanks all the same for the invitation.
Other personUne autre fois, alors !Another time, then!

What does merci quand même mean?

Pour a thing; de an action
PatternFrenchEnglish
merci pour + nounMerci pour votre aide.Thank you for your help.
merci de + past infinitiveMerci d’avoir cherché.Thank you for looking.
thanks despite the resultMerci quand même d’avoir essayé.Thanks anyway for trying.

A short Merci quand même can carry disappointment. Adding C’est gentil d’avoir essayé puts the appreciation into words. After successful help, Merci beaucoup ! is usually the simpler response. In each exchange above, the recipient thanks someone for an offer or an attempt to help. To answer that thanks, use De rien or Je vous en prie.

Question 1No account needed
The bookseller has looked but cannot find the book. Thank them for looking.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

Merci quand même d’avoir cherché.. The customer thanks the bookseller for the search despite the missing book.

Question 2No account needed
Complete the phrase.Merci quand même ___ votre aide.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

pour. Use pour before the noun phrase votre aide. Before an action, use de.

Question 3No account needed
What does trouvées agree with in the keys exchange?

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

Les clés. Les refers to feminine plural clés and comes before ai trouvées, so the participle agrees.