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French phrases for interrupting a discriminatory remark

Interrupt a discriminatory remark in French, set a clear limit, support the person affected and redirect the exchange. Four scenes with 24 translated lines.

In short

Interrupt clearly with Je vous arrête : cette remarque vise un groupe de personnes et n’a pas sa place ici. Then name the boundary or return to the actual topic. In private, ask the person affected Souhaites-tu qu’on fasse une pause ? and let them choose their response.

A meeting chair raising one calm open hand to interrupt a remark while supporting a colleague seated nearby.
A clear boundary begins with je vous arrête. Illustration: Atelier

The first two scenes use vous in a meeting; the private check-in uses tu with a colleague. The final scene offers a firmer response when the remark continues. Pick the degree of directness that fits your role and the setting.

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1 · Stop the remark in a meeting

A comment about a candidate’s origin interrupts a discussion of experience.

YouJe vous arrête un instant : cette remarque sur son origine est déplacée.Let me stop you there: that remark about their origin is inappropriate.
Colleague or participantC’était simplement une plaisanterie.It was just a joke.
YouMême sous forme de plaisanterie, cette généralisation pose problème.Even as a joke, that generalisation is a problem.
YouNous sommes ici pour examiner ses compétences.We’re here to assess their skills.
Colleague or participantD’accord, revenons au dossier.All right, let’s return to the application.
YouMerci. Quel point de son expérience souhaitez-vous examiner ?Thank you. Which aspect of their experience would you like to examine?
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2 · Name the limit without debating someone’s identity

Keep the focus on the words used and the discussion rules.

YouCette remarque réduit une personne à son handicap.That remark reduces a person to their disability.
Colleague or participantVous interprétez mal ce que je voulais dire.You’re misinterpreting what I meant.
YouJe parle des mots employés et de leur effet.I’m talking about the words used and their effect.
YouNous pouvons discuter des besoins du poste avec des critères précis.We can discuss the job requirements using precise criteria.
Colleague or participantQuels critères proposez-vous ?Which criteria do you suggest?
YouCommençons par les tâches à réaliser et les aménagements possibles.Let’s start with the tasks to be carried out and possible adjustments.
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3 · Check in privately

Offer support and a choice about the next step.

YouCe qui a été dit tout à l’heure était déplacé.What was said earlier was inappropriate.
YouSouhaites-tu qu’on fasse une pause ?Would you like us to take a break?
Colleague or participantOui, j’aimerais sortir quelques minutes.Yes, I’d like to step out for a few minutes.
YouVeux-tu que je t’accompagne ?Would you like me to come with you?
Colleague or participantMerci. Pour la suite, je préfère en parler moi-même.Thank you. As for what comes next, I’d prefer to speak about it myself.
YouD’accord. Je peux aussi être là lors de cet échange, si tu le souhaites.All right. I can also be there for that conversation, if you’d like.
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4 · Set a firmer boundary

As chair, interrupt repeated remarks and suspend the discussion.

YouJe vous demande de cesser ces remarques.I’m asking you to stop making those remarks.
Colleague or participantOn ne peut donc plus rien dire ?So we can’t say anything any more?
YouNous pouvons débattre du sujet. Les attaques visant l’identité d’une personne sont exclues.We can debate the topic. Attacks targeting a person’s identity are excluded.
YouJe suspends cet échange pour le moment.I’m pausing this discussion for now.
Colleague or participantQuand reprendrons-nous ?When will we resume?
YouNous reprendrons lorsque chacun pourra intervenir dans le respect de ce cadre.We’ll resume when everyone can contribute within these boundaries.
Choose the action your words perform
PurposePhrase
Interrupt immediatelyJe vous arrête un instant.
Identify the problemCette remarque vise son origine.
Offer supportVeux-tu que je t’accompagne ?
Redirect to the topicRevenons aux critères du poste.
Pause as chairJe suspends cet échange pour le moment.
Question 1No account needed
In private, which line gives the person affected a choice?

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

Souhaites-tu que je t’accompagne ?. Souhaites-tu… ? offers support and leaves the decision with the person addressed.

Question 2No account needed
You are chairing and the remark continues. Which line sets a direct limit?

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

Je vous demande de cesser ces remarques.. Cesser ces remarques names exactly what must stop; it is firmer than a general request to move on.