Je voulais or j’ai voulu? Past wishes and decisions in French
Compare je voulais and j’ai voulu through a missed conversation, a decision not to answer and a long-held wish. Includes four questions.
In short
Je voulais presents a wish or intention as background; j’ai voulu presents it as an episode in your account. With an obstacle, j’ai voulu can read as “I tried”; the surrounding sentence tells you what happened.
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What is the difference between je voulais and j’ai voulu?
je voulaisI wanted / was intending
Focus: the wish already in mind
voulais + infinitif
Je voulais parler à Nora après le cours.
I wanted to speak to Nora after class.
Je voulais apprendre le japonais quand j’étais étudiant.
I wanted to learn Japanese when I was a student.
j’ai vouluI wanted / decided / tried
Focus: an intention presented as part of the events
ai voulu + infinitif
J’ai voulu parler à Nora, mais elle était déjà partie.
I wanted to speak to Nora, but she had already left.
J’ai voulu aider, alors j’ai proposé de relire le texte.
I wanted to help, so I offered to reread the text.
In the first pair, voulais gives the reason for waiting after class. Ai voulu brings that intention into the sequence of events. Nora’s departure explains the missed opportunity. To report an actual attempt explicitly, use J’ai essayé de lui parler.
- Nora
Tu m’attendais ?
Were you waiting for me?
- Alex
Oui, je voulais te poser une question.
Yes, I wanted to ask you a question.
- Nora
Vas-y, je t’écoute.
Go ahead, I’m listening.
- Alex
Hier, j’ai voulu te téléphoner, mais je n’avais pas ton numéro.
Yesterday I wanted to phone you, but I didn’t have your number.
Unwilling, unable or deciding against it?
| French | Meaning in this account |
|---|---|
| Je ne voulais pas répondre, puis j’ai changé d’avis. | I didn’t want to answer, then I changed my mind. |
| Je n’ai pas voulu répondre : la question était trop personnelle. | I chose not to answer: the question was too personal. |
| Je n’ai pas pu répondre : mon téléphone était déchargé. | I couldn’t answer: my phone battery was flat. |
Keep one useful long-term expression too: J’ai toujours voulu apprendre le japonais means “I’ve always wanted to learn Japanese”. Here toujours gives the wish its long span. In a conversation happening now, Je voulais vous demander quelque chose is also a natural way to introduce a question you already had in mind.