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Assister à or aider? Attend the event, help the organiser

Learn assister à for attending and aider for helping. Compare three sentence patterns, practise a workshop scene and check the formal assistance sense.

In short

Assister à un événement means attending an event: J’assiste au concert. Aider quelqu’un means helping someone: J’aide l’organisatrice. Assister quelqu’un can also mean assisting someone, especially in a formal role; look for the person directly after the verb.

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  • assister àto assist someoneto attend / witness

    Nous assistons à une conférence.We are attending a talk.

    For helping a person, use aider quelqu’un: Nous aidons la conférencière.

  • aiderto attendto help

    Tu peux m’aider à préparer la salle ?Can you help me prepare the room?

    To say you attend the event, use assister à.

  • assister quelqu’unto attend someoneto assist or support someone

    Elle assiste la responsable dans son travail.She assists the manager in her work.

    With a person as direct object, assister has an assistance meaning. In everyday offers, aider is the simple choice.

What is the difference between assister à and aider?

Keep the person and event in place
PatternExampleMeaning
assister à + événementIl assiste au spectacle.He attends the show.
aider + personne + à + infinitifIl aide Léa à ranger.He helps Léa tidy up.
assister + personne + dans + nomIl assiste Léa dans son travail.He assists Léa in her work.

The contraction still applies: à + le concert becomes au concert; à + les réunions becomes aux réunions. With aider, put the person directly after the verb: aider Léa. Add à before an action: aider Léa à préparer.

Before the workshop starts

Un atelier samedi matin
  1. Léa

    Tu assistes à l’atelier samedi ?

    Are you attending the workshop on Saturday?

  2. Samir

    Oui. Je peux aussi t’aider à préparer la salle.

    Yes. I can also help you prepare the room.

  3. Léa

    Merci ! Viens à neuf heures pour installer les chaises.

    Thanks! Come at nine to set up the chairs.

  4. Samir

    D’accord. Et l’atelier commence à quelle heure ?

    All right. And what time does the workshop start?

  5. Léa

    À dix heures.

    At ten.

J’aide à préparer la salle, puis j’assiste à la conférence.

I help prepare the room, then I attend the talk.

Question 1No account needed
Choose “I attend the meeting”.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

J’assiste à la réunion.. Attendance uses assister à followed by the event: à la réunion.

Question 2No account needed
Complete the help pattern.Je vais aider Léa ___ ranger la salle.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

à. Use aider quelqu’un à plus an infinitive: aider Léa à ranger.

Question 3No account needed
What does assister mean here?Elle assiste la responsable dans son travail.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

Assist the manager.. La responsable is the direct object receiving assistance; there is no event after à.