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J’en ai marre or je suis fatigué: fed up, tired or both?

Tell frustration from tiredness in French. Compare j’en ai marre, fatigué and fatigant, then practise de, du and adjective agreement in short situations.

In short

J’en ai marre means “I’m fed up” or “I’ve had enough” in familiar French. Je suis fatigué means “I’m tired”; a woman writes fatiguée. You can feel both: Je suis fatiguée et j’en ai marre de recommencer.

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A tired woman rests on a sofa at dusk while a friend in a coat talks to her.
Je suis fatiguée names tiredness rather than frustration. Illustration: Atelier

What is the difference between j’en ai marre and je suis fatigué?

Vendredi soir
  1. Léa

    Tu viens avec nous ce soir ?

    Are you coming with us tonight?

  2. Nora

    Pas ce soir. Je suis fatiguée, je préfère me coucher tôt.

    Not tonight. I’m tired; I’d rather go to bed early.

  3. Léa

    Moi, j’en ai marre de travailler le soir. J’ai envie de faire autre chose.

    I’m fed up with working in the evening. I feel like doing something else.

  • J’en ai marre.I need some sleep.I’m fed up; I’ve had enough.

    J’en ai marre de refaire le même exercice.I’m fed up with doing the same exercise again.

    Name the annoyance after de: J’en ai marre de ces interruptions.

  • Je suis fatiguée.I’m fed up with this.I’m tired.

    Je suis fatiguée après cette longue journée.I’m tired after this long day.

    The speaker’s tired state is fatigué or fatiguée. For irritation, use J’en ai marre or the more neutral Cette situation m’agace.

  • C’est fatigant.I’m tired.It’s tiring.

    Recommencer dix fois, c’est fatigant.Starting again ten times is tiring.

    Fatigant describes what causes tiredness. Fatigué describes the person who feels it.

Keep en, then add the cause
CausePatternExample
An activityde + infinitiveJ’en ai marre d’attendre.
A masculine nounde + le = duJ’en ai marre du bruit.
A feminine nounde laJ’en ai marre de la routine.
A plural nounde + les = desJ’en ai marre des retards.

Keep en even when you name the cause: J’en ai marre du bruit. The expression changes with avoir: tu en as marre, elle en a marre, nous en avons marre. Marre stays unchanged. For fatigué, check the person: Paul est fatigué, Nora est fatiguée, ils sont fatigués, elles sont fatiguées.

Nous sommes fatigués et nous en avons marre d’attendre. Nous rentrons.

We’re tired and fed up with waiting. We’re going home.

A mixed group names both feelings, then gives its decision. The familiar complaint is direct; the sentence supplies its cause.

Question 1No account needed
Nora is sleepy after working all day. Complete her sentence.Je suis ___. Je vais me coucher.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

fatiguée. Nora describes her tired state with the feminine adjective fatiguée.

Question 2No account needed
Complete the complaint about noise.J’en ai marre ___ bruit.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

du. De and le contract to du: j’en ai marre du bruit.

Question 3No account needed
Say that the repeated activity is tiring.

Choose one answer.

Answer and explanation

C’est fatigant.. C’est fatigant describes the activity’s effect: it makes people tired.